Wrong motives for marriage lead to the most destructive
marriage.
The book deals with many examples of collective injustice
and my miserable life in a failed marriage by all standards.
My life turned into permanent hell when I got involved with
this woman; sorry, this devil who never got along with me be-
cause of the difference in character, culture, mentality, and
everything, so she was utterly unlike me. Miserable choice!
So, I thought I would write about the motives for marriage
and how marriage can be a successful project to ensure the
safety of the family and society-using my miserable experi-
ence and explaining the Noble Prophet's Hadith. On the au-
thority of Abu Hurairah, The Messenger of God, may God
bless him and grant him peace, said: "A woman is married
for four reasons: her money, her rank, her beauty, and her re-
ligion. So, take advantage of those who have religion and
succeed." This hadith is a beautiful approach to choosing a
life partner on sound foundations and a sound strategy for
building a strong, cohesive, and interconnected family, and
it helps individuals and society avoid the tragedy that I fell
into and destroyed my life.
